We lost a dear canine member of our family today. Tom-dog you were loved very much. I’m reblogging this post by my wife, Mary. I don’t have anything to add to this today.
“Our animals shepherd us through certain eras of our lives. When we are ready to turn the corner and make it our own…they let us go.” Author Unknown
We knew this day was coming. The average lifespan of a retriever is 10 years. Tom-dog was 14 years, 8 months when we said good-bye today.
He came home to our youngest son many years ago and was the grand-pup of our first retriever. In the learning hands of a growing boy he was trained into an outstanding hunter and companion.
When his boy grew to manhood, left for college, got married and started his family, Tom stayed with us. In the years that have followed, this magnificent family member has been greeted by 3 rowdy grandkids that he loved dearly.
Tom-dog always loved kids. It is only fitting that Tom-dog’s grand-pup, Jake, now resides with Tom-dog’s first person and family.
I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Blessings ~ Wendy
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Thank you for the blessing Wendy. Tom-dog was definitely a blessing for us. God welcomed a fine retriever today.
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he was a beautiful animal and an amazing member of your family. the post islovely. z
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We miss him very much.
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Tim, I am so sorry to hear about Tom 😦 Ralph
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Thanks Ralph.
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I’m so sorry to hear about Tom😔 He was beautiful and I’m sure he is happy in heaven now .
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I’m sure you are right. Happy and free from pain and that is a good thing. We miss him regardless.
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Tim, It is sad day for us all, we lost a partner, I am sorry. After our last dog we decided we can not do it again our thoughts are with your all. Doron
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Thanks Doron. It is so hard to lose these precious creatures. We seem to always need them around. The pain of losing them seems a small price for all the joy they bring during their life and in our memories. Bitter sweet I suppose.
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Am so very sorry . I know exactly what you are going through it is such a tough thing making the decision . I hope your good Tom – Dog memories will soon help override the awful down-ness you are probably feeling right now . He looks an absolute smasher in your photo .
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Thank you Poppy. Tom was truly a magnificant creature. To watch him perform back during his Hunt Test competitions was inspiring. We have so many great memories of him and our son making their journey together. His life joys completely out weigh the pain of his death. Stil we miss him dearly.
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yes .. they burrow into our very beings .
Take care of each other Tim x
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Thanks Poppy
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I read the news about Tom last evening with such sadness. I’m so sorry for you and your family – the loss of a pet is a very hard experience for both grownups and little ones. You guys are in my thoughts and I hope your sadness become filled with joyful memories of Tom. Mary
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Thank you for you kind thoughts Mary. There is tremendous joy in our memories of Tom. We would do it all over again without a thought.
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I felt so sad for you reading this today, losing a dog is losing part of the family. Tom looked like a lovely dog. My mother in law has a Golden and they are such lovely natured dogs. I hope you can find some peace in the lovely memories you have of Tom.
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Thank you so much. Tom brought us a lot of joy, which more the makes up for the sadness we feel right now.
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Every time I see this my heart feels the sadness.
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Yes, I think today I need to make a new post.
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Tim, having lost two retrievers myself, I know what a huge gap these lovely friends leave in our lives. I think the fact that they are so much a part of our day makes the loss much harder in these first few weeks. Glad to know that you have such great memories to treasure.
Sue
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Thank you Sue.
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Tom Dog looks like a beautiful soul – a fine old gentleman – you will feel his loss greatly, but how blessed you were that he was part of your family.
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We were blessed indeed.
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Beautiful
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